The Utopian Public Persona
This contemporary social imaginary of a "true inner self" wanting to get out is somewhat disingenuous; our quotidian social personas are not exclusively oppressive or opportunistic in origin. They are frequently simply expeditious. Even within the most "functional" family, we tend to conceal certain of our mental states simply out of consideration for others, or because we consider them irrelevant, because transient. (e.g. we may conceal a passing irritation because it is not meaningful.) Paradoxically, we do not consider our momentary irritability to be characteristic of either our authentic inner self, or our projected social self. Who then, we may ask, is irritated. Must we hypothesize yet another self, less authentic, but (strangely) more private than the other two?
More notably, we all have a tendency to helpfully project an exaggerated continuity in our social persona (or rather personae) in order to facilitate the construction of expectations and understandings with others. This is a case of using our behavior as a part of a system of coded interactions; a commoditization of the self that permits the elaboration of social systems and networks that would not otherwise be possible. The persona emerges naturally from our recognition of our own social exteriority and our consequent recognition of that exteriority as a index subject to manipulation. One might even say that the persona only comes into being, as such, once we begin to use our projected self as a sign in a system of conventional social interactions. It is the social instrumentalization of our exteriority.
(Of course, in the developmental history of any individual , this realization is contemporaneous with an introduction to society's various representations and social imaginaries concerning the self, which interact to influence the structure and nature of the psychic complexes - which may be only symbolic complexes - of the person.)
In other words, the social persona is a positive, constructive, and collaborative human innovation, albeit one which we also occasionally find "dehumanizing". We should not make the mistake of supposing that just because it is dehumanizing, it was entirely imposed upon us from without.
At the same time, we should not suppose that our "authentic inner self" is any more real, simply because it is not being instrumentalized for engagement with the social machine. Whatever cynical, considerate, or simply expeditious accommodations that we make in the confection of our external social personae, they, at least, are exposed to a modicum of social plausibility testing by the very fact of their public deployment, while our "authentic inner selves", distorted by fantasy and wishful thinking, all too often evolve into grotesque creatures whose viability in any conceivable social universe is, quite simply, implausible. In which case, the organism in question might arguably be said to be authentic (in a purely passive sense), but it is questionable that it should be called a "self".
Grundian moral entrepreneurs might gleefully seize on this observation as evidence of the normative superiority of the social facade, but they would be grievously missing the point. Neither the public personae nor the "authentic inner self" are, I would suggest, worthy targets for serious psychic investment by any thoughtful contemporary reader. (Whether "serious psychic investment" is a useful undertaking under any circumstances is, naturally, a debatable proposition.) Legitimate "targets of investment" aside, it seems to me that, if there is indeed a locus of authenticity, it must reside in the field within which all of the various selves hitherto considered are confected, y compris the interstices of any of the elaborated selves. There is not reason that I can see to suppose that the horizon of authenticity is coterminous with the horizon of any particular self.
It matters little whether we consider selfhood to be a grammatical, a social, or a psychic construct (if those distinctions have any utility), the same argument applies: what is included is not more "authentic" than what is excluded. And once we remove "authenticity" from the equation, selfhood ceases to pose the metaphorical problems of legitimacy and ownership that have traditionally been associated with it.
